L.O.V.E

Im sure every of us ever fall in a thing called LOVE!! For me myself, i can say that the feeling of falling in love is such a nice & sweet. At the very beginning of the relationship, everything seem to be so perfect, nice, wonderful & sweet. No, it's not that i said my relationship now is not nice and wonderful .. I love my bf, and will always do. It's just that, it's usual bah, when we get used to something, things become usual. Same like when we bought ourself new handphone ka, new laptop ka, new dress ka, new car ka.. at first, our feeling just spark!! like "WOW"... but after long while it started to fade. But in relationship, it's different, it don't fade, the more longer we get to know our partner, we'll discover lots of thing about them. Things that can makes us pissed off, and things that makes us loves them more..and more!! It's balance anyway. The discovery will not all in positive, but will also in negative. And from there, we'll learn a lot.

For me & the bf, actually i've known him for about 10 years. Starting to know this guy in year 2001. He's my classmate during my diploma actually, hahah!! Never crossed im my mind that we'll be in a relationship like this. We're just like normal friend, with no feeling involve. But after years of separation, then we meet again at beginning of year 2010. And start going out as friend, still no feeling involved. Then start going out for movie, until we don't realize that we're getting closer, that's when feeling start to grow.. Awwww!! hahahaah!! And about in July 2010, we started dating as 'us'.. no more me..me.. you..you...ehehehe.. Until now, we're still us.. and hoping it will last.. with God's will..

This bf, he's not the most handsome and rich guy that i ever knew. He's not the most romantic bf. He don't act sweet like casanova do, hahaha!! He's not a sweet talker too!! But.. Im so in love with his coolness & spontaneous act. And... a very hardworking guy i've ever know in my life. He'll work like a busy bee. Even sometimes i feel like he's neglecting me while busy working, sometimes i do feel mad at him. But i'll remind myself that, that's the reason why i fall for him. His hardworking attitude. I don't need a guy who is a head turner & rich like Brad Pitt, haha!! I don't need romantic and sweet guy like casanova b'coz this type of guy can easily attract other girls out there. Just let my bf be this way, and only i can have him. He's MINE!!! nyehh..nyehhh...

But in every love life, sure will be some obstacle anyway. None of it will be clear and perfect like a fairytale. This is real life, but i'll always remember this verse from bible. "LOVE IS PATIENT, LOVE IS KIND. IT DOES NOT ENVY, IT DOES NOT BOAST, IT IS NOT PROUD. IT IS NOT RUDE, IT IS NOT SELF-SEEKING, IT IS NOT EASILY ANGERED, IT KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONG. LOVE DOES NOT DELIGHT IN EVIL BUT REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH. IT ALWAYS PROTECTS, ALWAYS TRUSTS, ALWAYS HOPES, ALWAYS PRESERVES. LOVE NEVER FAILS...BUT NOW FAITH, HOPE, LOVE ABIDE THESE THREE, BUT THE GREATEST OF THESE IS LOVE ". (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)